Pondered about this subject this morning...
Matthew 5:27-28
You have heard that it was said, `Do not commit adultery.' But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.Recently, while I was overseas, people had invited me to join them partying at night clubs & other sleazy places, even though they know that I'm a Christian. I was told that it's nothing wrong, see only, no touch... It can be equated to seeing sports cars zipping past. Naturally our eyes will follow. Or, for my case, going to a guitar shop & seeing those magnificent Taylors, Martins, with their slick rose wood, crystal sounds, curves... Is it then the same thing when a pretty young girl walks by, that our (men) eyes naturally follow? Of course there is!
Seeing a sports car, with my eyes following it, I would want to own the car. Or at least be able to test drive it. To try it out. The accelaration, the boost, the speed... In the guitar shop, I would pick up one very nice one & play on it, have a feel of it, even though I don't have the intention to buy. Seeing a girl, with my mind wondering, I would then like to......... (I don't know how to write this part without sounding crude).
Well, there is nothing wrong with wanting to test drive the sports car or testing out the guitars in the guitar shop. One can argue that that is a sin of covetous. However, testing out every guitar in the guitar shop doesn't makes me covetous. The same cannot be said about girls. It takes lots of training on the eyes, & breaking old habits. The book "Every Man's Battle" by Stephen Arterburn, Fred Stoeker, Mike Yorkey gives us tips on how we can train ourselves, and what are the downfalls that might happen if we don't.